The Power of Words

Encouragement is too often seen as just a slap on the back, a “good for you,” or “way to go,” and even a “you can do it!” to those we want to help. These things are fine and important in their place, but they are not sincere encouragement. We encourage one another when we genuinely believe in each other, and when we use positive and uplifting words in our conversation. I have mentioned before that one of the most encouraging people I know is a man in a Michigan State prison. When I would visit him, I am always encouraged and leave feeling so blessed. It is because he is positive, hopeful, and grateful from his heart. He has much to complain about but only allowed himself to see God’s blessing in his life.

Scouts learn that how they are on the inside will always show on the outside, mainly in their words. German poet Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, “If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words.” I suggest that you listen to your own words. Pay attention to what you say when you are talking to friends and people you are relaxed with. It is easy to be aware of business settings, but it is when we feel relaxed that the truth about us comes out.

“Kind words do not cost much.  Yet they accomplish much.”

Blaise Pascal

1623-1662

Mathematician

Are your words uplifting, grateful, and encouraging to others? Or do you complain, fuss, and talk of discouragement? By controlling your speech, you can control your life. Pastor Joel Osteen said, “You can change your world by changing your words…Remember, death and life are in the power of the tongue.” How you talk matters a great deal. You cannot take words back or change their influence on others. Scouts should know that they must think before they talk and not allow their words to hurt them or others. Napoleon Hill said, “Think twice before you speak because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.”

Speak life and hope to all you talk to. Be known as an encouraging person. Have a grateful heart, and you will naturally speak in positive and encouraging words. If you find you have not been encouraging, it is not too late to start. You can even let people know you are sorry for what negative things you said, and you will now be more encouraging. Winston Churchill said, “In the course of my life, I have often had to eat my words, and I must confess that I have always found it a wholesome diet.”

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