Don't Do That

One of the things I have learned in my time in Scouting is that the young do not understand the concept of impossible. I hear the dreams of young men to do and be things that would be impossible for others. I think of the words of the English historian, G.M. Trevelyan who said, "Never tell a young person that anything cannot be done. God may have been waiting centuries for someone ignorant enough of the impossible to do that very thing."

                Scouts have proven this to be true time and time again. They have gone from humble beginnings to be leaders in business, science, education, government, and they have walked on the moon. You will not find the word impossible in the Scout Oath or Law. You will also not find it in the Scout.

                Success-minded people need to be willing to believe not only that the impossible can be done, but it can be done by them. You could well be the very person God has been waiting to achieve things that others never even try to accomplish. I believe there are three things that the person who will do the impossible must not do.

“Don't let what you don't know scare you because it can become your greatest asset.  And if you do things without knowing how they have always been done, you're guaranteed to do them differently.”

– Sara Blakely

Businesswoman

1)  Do Not Do What is Safe

                It is always disturbing to me that we tell young people they can be anything they want to be and then when they are old enough to achieve it, we say they have to be practical. I know that many will discourage people from following their dreams because they do not want them to be hurt. What they do not see is that by not launching out and taking the risk, they will achieve nothing in life.

                Scientist, Grace Hopper said, "A ship in port is safe, but that's not what ships are built for." The same is true for you. You were built for greatness and to achieve the impossible. You were never made to be safe and not to take risks. If you venture out to achieve your dreams could you fail? Yes. If you take the risk could you get hurt? Yes. But you could also achieve the impossible and become the person of excellence you were created to be. It is the worst fate to come to the end of life not knowing what you could have done than it is to try and fail.

2)  Do Not Do What is Common

                If you do what others have done you will get what others have gotten. However, if you do what has not been done, if you take a chance and try what others fail to try, you will get different results than others got before.

                When I worked at the Henry Ford Museum we use to tell people that there were three great myths that people believed. We let them know that despite what popular thinking was, the Wright brothers did not invent the airplane, Edison did not invent the light bulb and Ford did not invent the car. They all just made them work. They looked beyond what had been done and did something new.

                The great scientist, George Washington Carver put it this way, "When you can do the common things of life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world."

3)  Do Not Do What is not Yours

                Never, never, never allow someone else to define or create your dream. You were created for a purpose and that purpose is inside you. You can and must discover that for yourself. People will try to tell you what you should do in life or what your "talents" are. They may mean well but they do not know. Only you know.

                When you discover what your purpose is and identify your own dream, you will find an excitement and power you never realized was possible. I love the way Denis Waitley put it, "Get excited and enthusiastic about your own dream. This excitement is like a forest fire - you can smell it, taste it and see it from a mile away."

You matter! You matter to the world and to yourself. Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

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