They're Watching You

“I don't know of any other way to lead but by example.”

– Don Shula

Coach

As a Scout leader, we are faced with many challenges.  You have hiking, camping, keeping up with young boys (Cub Scouts), and project after project.  However, the hardest challenge for any leader is that of being an example.  When you choose to be a Scout leader you accept the responsibility of being an example of the Scout Law to the boys you lead.  There is no, "Do as I say, not as I do" in Scouting.  You are the greatest example these boys have; and believe me, they are watching.

                You do not have to be perfect - no one is.  You do however have to be willing to walk the talk and show the reality of the Scout Law in the life of an adult.  If the boys think that Scouting is just for kids and as an adult they do not have to follow it any more then you lose them before you start.  Here are four areas that you can set the example for life.

1)  In your behavior

                The Scout Law is based in behavior.  It tells us how we are to live, not just what we are to think.  By showing the reality of being trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent, the boys you lead will discover two very important things.  One is how they should live; and the other - which is the most important - is that it can be done.

2)  In your attitude

                Successful Scouting is all about attitude.  It is being positive and optimistic at all times.  It is learning to face challenges with a can do attitude and the belief that you will come out on top.  There is no place in Scouting, or in a successful life, for negative, complaining and fussing.

3)  In your words

                There is a simple principle in life that will get you far, "think before you talk".  There should never be cruel, unclean or hurtful words used by a Scout leader.  By setting the standard for right language, the leader can set the policy for how the boys talk as Scouts.  If your words are wrong you can expect nothing more from your Scouts.

4)  In your appearance

                Boy Scout founder, Sir Robert Baden-Powell said, "Show me a poorly uniformed troop and I'll show you a poorly uniformed leader."  Do not fall into the misunderstanding that the rules of Scouting are just for the boys.  Remember, when you become a Scout leader, you accept the responsibility to be an example of Scouting to your boys, your Pack or Troop and your community.

                You matter!  You matter to the world and to yourself.  Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

John Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, Life Coach and proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at http://www.growthcenter.net or www.johnpatrickhickey.com.   © 2014 John Patrick Hickey