As a Scout, you need to remember that you do not do good
deeds for pay. This is not saying that you work for free. The services you
render for a job are different. You should be paid for the time you work, and
you should always provide the best service you can. However, each day we are
presented with opportunities to do a good turn for others, and that should
always be free.
Americans have a “tipping”
mentality. We think that whenever someone does something for us, we should tip
them. The sad thing is many feel they should be tipped something for their
kindness. Once you bring money into a kindness it is no longer a kindness. You
did a job and were paid for it. That is not a good turn. Former British Prime
Minister Winston Churchill said, “We make a living by what we get, but we make
a life by what we give.” Scouts
should be making a life by doing a good turn daily.
“You can’t live
a perfect day without doing something for someone
who will never
be able to repay you.”
John Wooden
1910-2010
Coach
The best part of giving is when we
give to those who cannot give back to us. This means we need to look at giving
and serving differently. John D. Rockefeller, Jr. said, “Think of giving not as a duty but as a privilege.” Scouts and
Scouters should be excited at the opportunities we have to add value and help
into the lives of others. Your good turn could change the course of someone’s
life.
There are several ways we can do a
good turn for others who cannot pay us back. First, you must remember that
giving is not always a money thing. Yes, there are times we can help someone
financially who are in need, but there are more productive ways. You can give
your time to someone, or help them with a task or open a door for someone. It
is not a complicated thing. The key is to do it and not expect something in
return – ever.
To do a good turn for others is to
show grace. Grace is always a gift and has great value attached to it. Don’t
think that grace is just something God gives. We are to give grace to each
other as well. Scottish Preacher Alexander Whyte put it this way: “Grace, then,
is grace, - that is to say, it is sovereign, it is free, it is sure, it is
unconditional, and it is everlasting.” Grace is the one thing we can give to
one another that cannot be repaid because it is priceless.
“And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that
always having all
sufficiency in everything; you may have an abundance for
every good deed.”
2 Corinthians 9:8
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