It is easy
for the pursuit of success to become a very self-centered journey. One of the key elements of achievement is to have a burning passion for
your goal. It is what you think about,
work for and plan your life around.
Because of the strong attention we give to achieving, we can forget that
there is another key, without which we cannot arrive at real and lasting
success, that is others.
It is a paradox of life, but
very true, that the more you give the more you get. It is in helping others to succeed that we
can truly succeed in our own life.
Selfishness and self-centeredness will not lead to a successful life no
matter how hard you try. One of the great truths which I try to base my life on
is from the noted author and speaker, Zig Ziglar who said, “You can have everything
in life that you want if you will just help other people get what they want.”
This truth is stressed in the
Boy Scouts through their slogan: Do A Good Turn Daily. The Scout Handbook defines it this way:
"That means doing something to help others each day without expecting
anything in return." That ending is
key, "...without expecting anything
in return". Success-minded
people are to help others, do good deeds
and not expect to gain from it. As coach
John Wooden used to say, "You can't
live a perfect day without doing something for someone who can never repay
you."
“It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping
others to succeed.”
– Napoleon Hill
(1883-1970)
Author
Success-minded people should
keep their eyes open to opportunities around them each day to do something for
those they meet. This can be as simple
as opening a door for someone or giving an encouraging word to a person who is
struggling or it can be as involved as being a mentor to a young person or helping
on a project. The size and scope of the
deed is not the issue, it is the intent and attitude that makes the difference.
The act of doing good deeds will
soon become a good habit in your life.
You will find that you do kind things for people without really thinking
about it. This will transform your life for the better and bring success on a level that you never thought
possible. There is no getting away from
it, the more you give the more you get.
It is a law of nature and does not change.
You matter! You matter to the
world and to yourself. Remember to be
your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your
world.
Scouting Out of Uniform is a personal blog based on the lessons learned
from Scouting that relate to personal development and success principles and is
not an official site of The Boy Scouts of America. John Patrick Hickey does not
represent or speak for the Scouting program; however, he does completely
support and encourages Scouting for both young and old. John Patrick Hickey is
an author, speaker, Personal Development Coach, and
proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books,
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