You First

“The Scoutmaster teaches boys to play the game by doing so himself.”

– Sir Robert Baden-Powell

(1857-1941) Founder of the Boy Scouts

You are an example.  Whether you are working, playing, teaching or going through daily life.  Others are always watching you and people do notice - in spite of what we may think - people DO notice what we do.  At work, people will see your work habits, if you are on time, do more or less than you are asked to do.  At home, they notice how you treat those who you are closest to and the respect that you give to others.  At play or relaxing with friends, they notice the way you behave, the language you use and the things you do for fun.  There is no escaping it, you are an example.

                Success-minded people understand that true integrity is what you do when no one is looking.  Why?  Because it is part of who you are as a person.  It is hard work to behave properly in front of everyone.  It takes focus and energy to be cautious about what you say and do so as to set a good example.  It is not hard at all when that person you want to portray is really who you are.

                Mark Twain once said, "If you always tell the truth you don't have to remember anything."  That applies to our behavior as well.  If you are a person of good character, integrity and kindness you do not have to pretend for anyone.  It should always be just who you are.

                Want to live in a better world?  Be a better person.  Want to work with people who do their best, give more than expected and strive for excellence?  Be that person.  Set the standards for those around you.  Not to brag or look down on people.  That is the opposite of what I am asking you to do.  Be an honest and real success-minded person who others can follow and see how it is done.

                Never accept the excuse, "Well, no one else is doing it.  Why should I be the one to be the example?"  You are an example no matter what you do, so why not be a good one.  You notice when people behave badly, cheat, lie and get out of work.  Why would you think people would not notice when you do it?

                In the end, success-minded people believe they are here to make things better.  They know that they may be just one person, but they are a good one.  They understand that by being one less problem to the rest of the world they have shown the path to success.  And if we all strive to be the best we can be, we have made a massive change that will improve the lives of many.

                You matter!  You matter to the world and to yourself.  Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

John Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, Life Coach and proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at http://www.growthcenter.net or www.johnpatrickhickey.com.   © 2014 John Patrick Hickey