Monday, April 2, 2018

Clothes Do Matter

One of my grandchildren's favorite games was to dress up.  My wife and I one year stocked up on Halloween costumes when they went on sale right after Halloween.  That kept them going for some time.  Dress up is fun and good for the imagination.  But what about when you really must live the role you are going for?  That is when the costume becomes a uniform and a uniform means business.

                Uniforms come in all shapes and designs.  For the business person, it can be a man or women's suite, for the cook, it is their jacket and hat, for the first responder it would be the uniform of whatever department they were in.  Uniforms help us to know what a person does, they bring with them a degree of respect.  When you see a person in a uniform you know what they do and you expect certain behaviors from them.

                Uniforms do something more as well, they make the person wearing them feel their job.  When you are dressed to do work, no matter what that work is, you feel more confident and prepared.  Your uniform gives you a feeling of authority and skill.  People who dress for their jobs do better, feel better and look better.  Those who wear anything they feel like to the office do not do their best.  Studies have found that office workers, like students, who dress down perform at a lower level than their fellow workers who dress in a professional manner.

“A costume is something you put on and pretend that you are what you are wearing.  A uniform, on the other hand, reminds you that you are, in fact, what you wear.”
– Eunice McGarrahan
Presbyterian Clergy

                We have seen that once dress codes were removed from schools, students grade averages went down.  When you dress to achieve, you do better than those who do not.  Simple fact.  Being dress for the job we are doing affects us emotionally and physically.  This is the reason the standards are so high for those in the military, first responders, medical professionals and of course, Scouts.

                Boy Scout founder, Sir Robert Baden-Powell, believed that the uniform gave a boy the sense of discipline, responsibility, and belonging. The importance of the Scout uniform was not just for the boy, but also for the leader who set the example. Baden-Powell said, “Show me a poorly uniformed Troop and I’ll show you a poorly uniformed leader.”

                Success-minded people know that to do their best they must look their best.  This does not mean that you wear formal attire every day, but it does mean you are clean, neat and look professional.  By taking the time and effort to look professional, you will feel better, people will treat you as a professional and you will have the confidence to be the best at what you do.  It does not take a lot of work but it has a whole lot of benefits.

You matter!  You matter to the world and to yourself.  Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

Scouting Out of Uniform is a personal blog based on the lessons learned from Scouting that relate to personal development and success principles and is not an official site of The Boy Scouts of America. John Patrick Hickey does not represent or speak for the Scouting program, however, he does completely support and encourages Scouting for both young and old.  Newsletter.jpgJohn Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, Personal Development Coach and proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at www.johnpatrickhickey.com.   © 2018 John Patrick Hickey



Wednesday, March 28, 2018

The Power of a Good Deed

It is easy for the pursuit of success to become a very self-centered journey.  One of the key elements to achievement is to have a burning passion for your goal.  It is what you think about, work for and plan your life around.  Because of the strong attention we give to achieving, we can forget that there is another key, without which we cannot arrive at real and lasting success, that is others.

                It is a paradox of life, but very true, that the more you give the more you get.  It is in helping others to succeed that we can truly succeed in our own life.  Selfishness and self-centeredness will not lead to a successful life no matter how hard you try. One of the great truths which I try to base my life on is from the noted author and speaker, Zig Ziglar who said, “You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help other people get what they want.”

                This truth is stressed in the Boy Scouts through their slogan: Do A Good Turn Daily.  The Scout Handbook defines it this way: "That means doing something to help others each day without expecting anything in return."  That ending is key, "...without expecting anything in return".  Success-minded people are to help others, do good deeds and not expect to gain from it.  As coach John Wooden used to say, "You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who can never repay you."

“It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.”
– Napoleon Hill
(1883-1970) Author

                Success-minded people should keep their eyes open to opportunities around them each day to do something for those they meet.  This can be as simple as opening a door for someone or giving an encouraging word to a person who is struggling or it can be as involved as being a mentor to a young person or helping on a project.  The size and scope of the deed is not the issue, it is the intent and attitude that makes the difference.

                The act of doing good deeds will soon become a good habit in your life.  You will find that you do kind things for people without really thinking about it.  This will transform your life for the better and bring success on a level that you never thought possible.  There is no getting away from it, the more you give the more you get.  It is a law of nature and does not change.

You matter!  You matter to the world and to yourself.  Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

Scouting Out of Uniform is a personal blog based on the lessons learned from Scouting that relate to personal development and success principles and is not an official site of The Boy Scouts of America. John Patrick Hickey does not represent or speak for the Scouting program; however, he does completely support and encourages Scouting for both young and old. Newsletter.jpgJohn Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, Personal Development Coach and proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at www.johnpatrickhickey.com.  

© 2018 John Patrick Hickey

Monday, March 26, 2018

The Simplicity of Miracles

Do you believe in miracles?  I do.  I have seen too many wonderful things in my life not to.  There are those among us who do not.  They try to explain away anything they do not understand.  Life can be very dull for these dear people.  They miss out on the wonder and beauty that surrounds them every day.  They go through life more intent on explaining all that happens rather than enjoying life.

                Success-minded people understand that among all the miracles of life, the greatest is really the simplest.  There is no miracle more exciting in all the universe than birth.  I have had the massive privilege to witness the birth of both of my daughters and all but two of my ten grandchildren.  There is nothing I have seen that can compare to the wonder and marvel of birth.

                There is another birth that I find marvelous.  That is the birth of a dream.  It happens at the moment when a person realizes what they were created to do.  Mark Twain put it this way: "The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why." 

                I have seen it so many times in the eyes and faces of those success-minded people who suddenly are awakened to their dream.  It is as if all the lights go on.  They know in their hearts that this - whatever "this" is - is what they were born to do.  It is never disappointing or fearful, but a wonderful sense of discovery.

“It is always the simple that produces the marvelous.”
– Amelia Burr
(1831-1919) Writer

                In Scouting, this is one of the many benefits of the Merit Badge program. Merit badges are not just awards for the boys to pick up along the way, they are the stepping stones on a path of discovery. Scouts are exposed to many possible career and life choices that they may otherwise never have access to. Many a scientist, teacher, engineer, businessman and a thousand other professionals, discovered their passions in the process of earning a simple merit badge.

                Do you know why you were born?  There is a reason; no one is here to fill space or by mistake.  It is also not a mystery that is hidden from you.  It is there in your heart.  What is it that you have always longed to do?  If you could achieve anything and know you will not fail, what would it be?  Find that and embrace it and you will know the miracle of your existence. 

                Miracles really are very simple.  They happen all the time.  Yet their simplicity and commonness do not take away from their wonder.  You were born for a purpose that only you can fill.  You were given a dream, not to torment you or make you feel incomplete, but to make you sore and be a true force in this world.

You matter!  You matter to the world and to yourself.  Remember to be your best, love God, have good manners, achieve the unknown and change your world.

Scouting Out of Uniform is a personal blog based on the lessons learned from Scouting that relate to personal development and success principles and is not an official site of The Boy Scouts of America. John Patrick Hickey does not represent or speak for the Scouting program, however, he does completely support and encourages Scouting for both young and old. John Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, Personal Development Coach and proud Scouter. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at www.johnpatrickhickey.com.   © 2018 John Patrick Hickey



Coming in April 2018!!!!